My story of sexual desire for women and the shame many people still carry around their sexual desires, fantasies and choices based on gender.
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I've only really been with men, but I love the thought of being with a woman. Both are sexy 💙 I have been bisexual since I was a kid and didn't really realize it till high school. I'm now in a serious relationship with my boyfriend whom I love, but I still crave a womans kiss and soft touch.
I absolutely love this. I have always considered myself bisexual, but I have never actually had the opportunity to date women. My family was really religious as well and I was so scared of their judgment. I'm really glad you did this video. My boyfriend and I have seriously been talking about a 3some relationship, just to let me have that experience. We are monogomous as well, but experiment and have happily been together almost 9 years. Such a beautiful video. Great topics!
Layla Martin I enjoyed watching all your videos. I can't wait to view new ones..., keep them coming. Everyone deserves to know more about their own body and experience with their body to discover their own desire, so long hurting someone's soul isn't involved - nonattachment..!
I have the reverse experience to you- I identify as a ‘lesbian’ but I like to have sex with men... for the different spiritual experience. Doesn’t effect my sexuality - and really I hate to label myself as lesbian because sexuality inherently, is fluid.
I told my husband a while ago that I've always been attracted to women and there was a part of me that felt sad because I have never had any experiences with women before I got married. He responded with total openness and after some discussion, we've decided that in the future if I ever feel called to express that side of myself, we can explore the idea of bringing a woman into our bedroom in a threesome. We can sleep with other people as long as we do it as a team lol. I love it so much, just knowing that that option is there and ready for me when I want it. He's curious to bring a man into our bedroom as well. I married such a good, sweet man.. *cough* excuse me while I go throw myself at him lol
Hi Hugh. Layla is offering her experience as a way of encouraging people to let go of shame around sexual desires (whatever they may be) and to have all the pleasure they deserve in bed. ~ Bonnie, Layla's Team 💚
Love this and what a jewel this comment about how financial freedom actually granted you the freedom to be totally ok with the idea of having a relationship with a woman! I wouldn't have made that connection in my mind but it makes total sense. Looking forward to advancing in my business to see how many other random constraints fall off me!!
Heteronormativity. We’d date anyone if we weren’t conditioned through a patriarchal hierarchy.
Woman are delicious and sensual. The first time I made love to a woman, I kept thinking, “This doesn’t feel weird. She feels like me.”
I’m so jealous of the young adults now, who can embrace their true sexuality.
You look so beautiful in this video, honestly the word beautiful is not enough to describe what you look like in this its like something inside you which is shining through in this video. And your words always have encouraged me some way or the other thanks a lot.
I’m like you layla! I think it’s just completely natural and I don’t even understand needing to identify it! Women in particular are very sexually and sensually fluid. It’s part of our sexual power! It’s beautiful! I like how you choose to say sexually fluid. I’ve never felt right saying I’m bisexual. It just felt unnecessary and not authentic to myself to identify that particular way.
as an openly gay biological female, i adore this video. sex with women is so beautiful and wonderful and fulfilling. i love you and appreciate everything you do so much. thank you for speaking about this. ❤️
Yes Layla yes!!
Crazy how you post that now. Last night I obsessively scrolled down on Eat, Pray, Love author Elizabeth Gilbert's FB page to understand her wild and passionate relationship with her lover Rayya who recently passed away. Which got me to self reflect on the subject....
It's exactly what I felt when I had a sexual experience with a woman who was in love with me and whom I was deeply attracted to! I thought "oh my God, this is what I feel like!!" . I felt I was making love to myself. It was both delicious and freaky, and because at that time I hadn't done any sexual healing, I also got grossed out and didn't want to go into full intercourse because I had not fully accepted and loved my own pussy yet.
The level of emotional intensity freaked me out for the same reasons. I thought "it's hard enough to handle my own bursting emotional tendencies, I can't do it with someone like me!"
Because of my attraction to women since I was a teenager, I was wondering "what I am? straight, lesbiand, bi? " And like you said I don't want to even worry about putting a label on my sexual attraction because it is fluid in essence.
This said, I love cocks. And I love my boyfriend's energy and presence. That's why I never saw myself in a long term relationship with a woman but who knows if that will always be true.
And may I comment on those sexy legs and gorgeous outfit!!! :) You rock.
Sure. Any fully sexually sane person knows they can try anything, they are try-sexuals. I have sucked cocks not because I'm infatuated with guys, I'm attracted to women, but because having watched enough porn and seen women having so much erotic fun sucking cock, I wanted to try it myself. Once you have gotten rid of all shame about sex, you can do anything for fun, without being infatuated with a particular person or sex. A sexually liberated person is not homosexual, or heterosexual, or bisexual, they are PANsexual, in ADDITION their original affectionate preference.
I am confused about why if you are not ashamed you wouldn't claim a label like bisexual or queer. While it would be great if we lived in a society where sexual fluidity was normalized, we don't. So labelling ourselves as queer disrupts heteronormativity and normalizes the experience of sexual fluidity by making it visible. I think part of the reason why the children you are talking about embrace sexual fluidity is because of the work the LGBTQ+ community has done, and continues to do, in making it visible and normal.
Probably because she doesn't feel like she is fitting into the definition of bisexual, pansexual or queer. And because of the total freedom that give the "label-less" states. I feel the same as her, and we are not alone. But I agree that our freedom to say "I don't label myself, I'm just free" is in big part due to LGBTQ+ work that opened us to the diversity of sexualities, of course.
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Thank you so very much. I have been involved with both men and women but until recently considered myself straight. At 66 I fell in love with a mature woman 15 years my junior. I resonate with all the things you describe and the freedom that comes with it. There is a deeper connection I feel with woman. Maybe it is my age, maybe it is my more spiritual propensity, but I could not be happier with the bliss and joy that comes from being loved and adored and treated like a queen.
Thank you again—this is very cathartic.Peace
Hi. Although Layla would love to respond to everyone personally, with the volume of messages she receives it just isn't possible for her so I have been responding on her behalf. Sorry if this was confusing when I didn't put my signature in the comment. I really appreciate your share and support for Layla's offerings. ~ Bonnie, Layla's Team 💚
Layla Martin you understand I'm not being a I love you fan. I mean I love this Channel and what it's about. I love what she's saying because I can relate and I'm so much older it's so funny to be listening to someone who's a woman but they're so young compared to me that I wish I was that way outwardly at that time I was definitely like this as a young person and outspoken I just didn't do it in a public forum but there really wasn't a public forum at that time. I guess I'm rambling because this is the only one that was signed Bonnie a team member all the rest were just signed normal and I'm not sure why? tired and probably reading something into it that it is not... Just wondering why is it different person replying or maybe you really did just do them all and told me. LOL I'm really rambling now sorry I'm not well I'm in excruciating pain I just really like the subject because one of the things I can add to this as middle-aged to older women this subject is coming up because we all had our experiences and my group of friends with dating women and I don't really see myself as bisexual I see myself is attracted to a person. we never had a word for it because at the time I was doing that bisexual people were considered bad in the community that it was just confusing the public even more! the fact that we're all sexual beings and that you can fall in love with a person not a gender. I'll stop now I have 103 temperature. enough talk-to-text babble for now. Thank you
Thank you so so much for this video. Its something I've been wrestling with myself recently - do I want to find a female partner... But I'm still attracted to men... But I wouldn't call myself bi... So thank you for this. Nice to know I'm not alone.
You're an inspiration and I hope to do your coaching course one day when money is less of an obstacle.
You're amazing and your hair looks gorgeous xxxx
great video Layla. I consider myself emotionally queer. I am not sexually attracted to women (altho I one attraction once) but I am very much emotionally attracted to women. I love being in their presence. My friends have tried to label me bisexual but that doesn't feel right to me because I know I will most likely never have sex with a woman as I am not attracted to the female genitalia, altho I LOVE mine. lol. So I love this video. I feel fluidity is natural and I feel the feminine is most definitely fluid in a sense.
As I was sending this comment, I realize that it still feels extremely vulnerable to me admitting something like this publicly, that really shows me how much there is still a taboo around sensations like this and fear of being labeled immediately.
I resonate with this, I’m sometimes really fascinated by a woman, enjoying her presence and looking at her, I can sometimes also enjoy kissing or touching a woman softly because it’s a beautiful and different sensation... but it’s more a sensual thing to me, so far I didn’t really experience a sexual desire in me towards women.
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