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No Sex Marriage – Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today? Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health". This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Alfred Pardoe (6 часов назад)
Double Standard of life: A man is expected to take the time to learn his women’s body and what makes her tick because they are complicated. But women don’t need to take the same time to figure out her man and figure out what makes him tick because apparently we are all simple beings.
morgellon Betancor (8 часов назад)
de ello no se nada saludos son temas muy intimos
Zak Ludick (20 часов назад)
Now that's an idea I could really get behind...
Auke De Boer (1 день назад)
Are you still single?
Naz Idoura (1 день назад)
I really love the points you brought up, there is more to this. Amazing talk. You seem to get it as far as us guys.
Naz Idoura (1 день назад)
I've been single for a year and a half, and sexless for a year and a half and I find myself watching this from start to finish.
Bootsie Collins (2 дня назад)
Psychopath Western woman.  Find your own way ... don't allow "media" puppets to brainwash your understanding of life.
KiwiCatherineJemma (2 дня назад)
I saw this video years ago, then for a second time today, but something weird I noticed... Why the six second audio replacement edit starting at 17m28s ? (I think there was another one earlier in the video also, but couldn't detect it again, on another quick scan through).. Great video, was just wondering.
Maureen McGrath (1 день назад)
The videographer forgot to put the back up mic on. Of course the mic failed so I had to go and re-record that bit. I said exactly the same thing as I did at the theatre. Thanks for your nice comment. +KiwiCatherineJemma
ifiokjezreel offiong (2 дня назад)
Superb delivery, Excellent presentation, Thanks maureen...
landea59 (2 дня назад)
The new Dr Ruth.
Rick Midnight (2 дня назад)
If you're not funny don't try to be. And the condescending remarks towards men are unproductive.
Maureen McGrath (1 день назад)
Mansplaining. +Rick Midnight
CupcakeCult (2 дня назад)
have you seen r/nicegirls honey, it's not just the male
Steve Shire (2 дня назад)
We teach presentation skills, great topic however the speaker can use some training, quick tip you really have to get a handle on your rocking back n forth and learn how to have a power position. Outside of that , very good however guarantee you with some training you will be much better! Thanks for the info.
kin kin (2 дня назад)
Why do I find myself attracted to this women.
Sagans Run (2 дня назад)
There are people who sabotage their relationships... Marriage by delibertly making their partners miserable. By being demanding, selfish, hateful , critical of their mates. This puts a wall barrier in the marriage that is a control tool.
Swoll Arms (2 дня назад)
Very informative. Her rocking side to side is amusing.
phizzelout (2 дня назад)
I was married 15 years 7 of them my wife nothing to do with me... the other 8 she made it her job to not be attractive
David Heise (3 дня назад)
This is why my marriage ended in a nutshell.
Enricom23 (3 дня назад)
How do you keep your kitty happy...
justin marshall (3 дня назад)
The man in me wants to not like this lady, but she's 100% right.
Mario Smith (3 дня назад)
My kinda humor...
Waqasshah Waqas (3 дня назад)
ahmadwaqas
jovita saboya (3 дня назад)
Si estas sano tendrás sexo toda tu vida
Annony Mouse (3 дня назад)
This is why open relationships or polyamory is getting more popular. Both genders are realizing that lifetime monogamy is not natural.
Felix Bruyns (3 дня назад)
"Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."- Catechism of the Catholic Church, Part 3, Section 2, Chapter 2, Article 6, Subsection 2, Paragraph 2352
LynnJynh9315 (3 дня назад)
Why isn't this harpy isn't getting humps? it's a mystery!
Donald Wortham (3 дня назад)
Glad I'me not in a bad situation like this. She would be replaced
Sumant Bayanker (4 дня назад)
Very interesting
Brenda Maki (4 дня назад)
Love we have forgotten Love! Call me a romantic!!
Stephan Gruhne (4 дня назад)
Why is she dancing all the time? Disturbing.
Stephan Gruhne (3 дня назад)
Huh? I feel like there's missing something. I'm not a native Speaker, so would you explain your Answer? Dance like nobody is watching? Dance at it. Nobody is watching? (Then: dance what for?) You left me confused.
Maureen McGrath (3 дня назад)
Dance as if nobody is watching. +Stephan Gruhne
Annabelle M. Medalla Presto (4 дня назад)
It's educational. She is really an excellent speaker, she knows how to handle a very difficult topic . The audience can relate well.She caught the attention of everybody, which i think the audience enjoyed and learned more from the topic. Thank you .
Maureen McGrath (4 дня назад)
Thank you very much +Annabelle M. Medalla Presto.
Vitezbritva (4 дня назад)
Speak for yourself lady. Maybe if you stop treating your marriage like a possession that has monetary value to it, you might get laid more. Saying. ; )
Maureen McGrath (3 дня назад)
Lovely. +Vitezbritva
David Isaya (4 дня назад)
Lovely
Joe Rickard (5 дней назад)
AI
Mastuerzo (5 дней назад)
Masturbation is a waist of time and this woman is a thot.
Maureen McGrath (3 дня назад)
No, she's not. +Mastuerzo
Mastuerzo (5 дней назад)
The ultimate lifehack is not to get married or cohabitate with a woman. Life becomes fantastically pleasurable.
Amy Gill (5 дней назад)
Wish I could share this on FB. But if i put anything on Facebook like this my husband forces me to take it down. Just because of the title and what people will think. I think he respects that we shoudl believe all married couples had kids my immaculate conception
Sean Thomas (5 дней назад)
what if you don't have a partner again
Google User* (5 дней назад)
Her body moving right and left was way too distracting. I wished she wouldn't move so much.
David Casson (3 дня назад)
Google User* She's undersexed.
Faster The Dragster (5 дней назад)
The view count here is amazing and sad, so many of us just can't seem to find satisfaction with our own life. No matter how far you go, no matter where you end up, you can never escape "You" We put people on these pedestals and when they don't add up for us, we move on to the next person to use.
Rafael Michael Soto (6 дней назад)
Maureen McGrath, telling it like it is!!! ❤
Trudy Bettinger (6 дней назад)
I often sleep in another bed. It is comfortable for me. It's okay.
Arvind Madan (6 дней назад)
What an amazing smile Maureen has.
Random Turtle (6 дней назад)
Lol I’m asexual soooo...
MeditatingDuck (6 дней назад)
Why am I watching this? I'm asexual :p
John Lee (6 дней назад)
This woman sounds like a text to speech program
Paul Davenport (6 дней назад)
I never have to buy presents, talk sweet nothings or beg to be intimate with my right hand. 😎
Amal Amal (7 дней назад)
She’s such a GREAT speaker!! Very funny and with really interesting stories and great puns 😂 😂
Maureen McGrath (6 дней назад)
Thank you +Amal Amal Sincerely, The Robot
Amal Amal (7 дней назад)
She sounds like a robot
Sam Beau (7 дней назад)
Is this wrong?
Master Johny (7 дней назад)
Wow, great speech
Maureen McGrath (6 дней назад)
Thank you very much +Master Johnny
Entertrainment (7 дней назад)
One of the best constructed, delivered, and pragmatic presentations I've ever had the pleasure to listen to and watch. Thank you!
Maureen McGrath (7 дней назад)
Wow! Thank you very much! +Entretrainment
elmateo77 (7 дней назад)
"Why did you marry your wife?" ..."To acquire physical labor..."
Lccl lccl (7 дней назад)
Mrs. McGrath, thank you for talking about this difficult subject. I think it's important to say that there ARE some WOMEN who want intimacy and the MEN don't. After I became a mother, the intimacy between my husband and me plummeted... It can cause some serious communication breakdowns and hurt feelings... I am taking notes of your speech!
Lccl lccl (7 дней назад)
Yes, because the joke is always that the woman "has a headache", etc and the men comiserate, but NONE of the women in my group of friends has this problem... I honestly don't think they can empathize... they always say, "Oh, you're lucky that he's not asking all the time", but they don't realize that it's a huge disappointment and frustration. I used to try to talk about it with my husband, but after 10 years, and listening to Eckhart Tolle about the human condition, I let it go...
Maureen McGrath (7 дней назад)
Indeed, there certainly is desire discrepancy whereby the men lack the desire. Dare I say it is often more devastating for a woman when this occurs. +Lccl lccl
Pete Wind (7 дней назад)
great stuff!
Maureen McGrath (7 дней назад)
Thank you +Pete Wind
Salty Tofu (7 дней назад)
**reads description** NO, A MARRIED COUPLE CAN’T HAVE MARRIAGE
L Jones (7 дней назад)
Wow thats the reason why men die faster than women in marriages dammm🔥
L Jones (7 дней назад)
I always felt like if not physically attracted to your mate you don't love them! Leads back to the 💰
Slim Symes (7 дней назад)
I know a Cougar with Mercedes Benz E350 Cabriolet . It is a rough ride but its sticks to the road around those mountain curves from Big Sur to Brice Canyon.
Ekanga Attah (8 дней назад)
Thumbs up.
Darrell Logan (8 дней назад)
This moron can't even do simple math; "75% and over 50%". WTF?
fbzzzy (8 дней назад)
Being single it makes no sense for me to watch..
Show Mix (8 дней назад)
Excellent)))))
Show Mix (8 дней назад)
Excell
Vernon Garrett (8 дней назад)
Love is an aphrodisiac strictly For procreation!
UrVAITguy (8 дней назад)
Amen. You better have a lot to talk about because the passion is gonna fade... and FAST.
Abra Alahouzos (8 дней назад)
She sounds like a robot
A A (8 дней назад)
I never needed 'drinks', either 'he' hit the 'spot' or he didn't. It's called being 'selfless' & sometimes it's your gift to that person, what else would it be ??? No choice :D
Food Sex And Music (8 дней назад)
Great video! Very eyeopening
Eliphas Levi (9 дней назад)
kids...as soon as u have kids she stops being a lover and starts being a mother.
scales57 (9 дней назад)
very informative - but I kept thinking she looked like Hillary  Clinton.  And that ruined the mood for me - guess I'll just sleep on the couch.
Liza Dufresne (9 дней назад)
She talks like a robot
Eric Johnston (9 дней назад)
I always thought "Ted Talks" featured intelligent people. Until now.
vitola1111 (9 дней назад)
If two people come into a relationship with a selfish mindset thinking “what is in it for me?” then it’s bound for doom. If both come in with an otherness mindset of “how can I better please my spouse?” it’s going to work out. This selfish prideful culture is the death of marriage. No self sacrifice, just self exaltation and self-worship.
Since when (7 дней назад)
Autolatry is rapidly increasing in the world. It's just pure nonsense, they are an indictment of society.
Buzz Miller (10 дней назад)
Thank God for Rosy Palm!!!
Erica Lauren Horn (10 дней назад)
Bye
Erica Lauren Horn (10 дней назад)
You’re full of 💩
Erica Lauren Horn (10 дней назад)
I don’t have any problems
romeo9782 (10 дней назад)
sharing your body with you significant other is a bonding of flesh and spirit .it releases stress and gives you security that your not alone. mentally it gives you something to look forward to like going out with you spouse and just seeing them happy.
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Anonymous (10 дней назад)
I'm hearing a lot of jibber jabber here. Men are hunters, a long term relationship of any sort provides no hunt.
Ang S (11 дней назад)
If you have a phone in the bedroom you need more help than marriage counseling!!
doc layne (11 дней назад)
IT'S LIKE EATING . STEAK. IT'S GOOD . BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO EAT IT EVERY DAY.. BECAUSE AFTER AWHILE , IT TURNS TO BOLOGNA..
James Edwards (12 дней назад)
Points made but man bashing doesnt help.
Audrey Muzingo (7 дней назад)
James I agree. Women making fun of men doesn't help this 'incel' situation whatsoever. I'm surprised Maureen didn't even bring up the topic of incels or anyone NOT in a marriage or relationship.
Maureen McGrath (12 дней назад)
A couple of jokes. Warming up the crowd! +James Edwards
Jason Sambo (12 дней назад)
Nomenclature//
Jim Stewart (13 дней назад)
Five nuckle shuffle science lol
Matt S (13 дней назад)
Not married anymore due to ptsd and being cheated on while away with army. No it’s been over 13 yrs since even kissed a women. Got burnt doing my bit and then throw ptsd. Lost my nerve to even talk to women. So looks like I’m heading for early death. Great thanks for the info lol.
Brien (13 дней назад)
Matt S Your not alone. I've got ptsd and this is my second marriage and I'm done with everyone and everything. It's been over 5 years.
Alton Rowell (13 дней назад)
Life is a balance of things and thinking. U cant go around in a orgasm all the damn time. Get real people. That's like laughing 24 7. After awhile it gets old. I don't know about u all but my sides heart.
和田龍雄 (13 дней назад)
年×
Alton Rowell (13 дней назад)
Read your bible. Don't believe everything you here on the internet or utube. Rong way it will lead u. U must follow GOD and your hart. In that order. And don't believe someone who says u got to whack your self off evory hour. That's nonsense. Stupidity and ignorance combined. Some of us got to work for a liveing. Someone with that kind of mentality is sick in the head. Any one thinking this way is setting them self up for disaster.
Jannie Schlüter (13 дней назад)
TEDx Talks, the source for brainwashing and indoctrination.
Larry Courtney (13 дней назад)
remember the show Stepford Wives coming soon to a neighborhood near you
johnny blaime (13 дней назад)
She wants every other guy..And he wants every other Girl..
saltyseascott (13 дней назад)
I am thinking concubine is a Hebrew word defined as any wife but ther first wife.
DJ Poopy Pants (14 дней назад)
"LTBTG..I.......XCDERTGVBHJNUYTWSDSWA(_*_)..." Shits getting outtta control.
alex cool (14 дней назад)
Hello..I'm 28 years old ..I have musterbated lot..in my past .. Because of lack of awareness n education ..bad friend s company... please tell me should I go for marriage or not... I'm worried lot ... please.. please help me...
BlackSmith (14 дней назад)
The only ladies who always give pleasure to a man are Mrs Palmer and her five daughters
Luke Skyrunner (14 дней назад)
MGTOW Only way to go
Compeer Raa (14 дней назад)
Masturbated right through this......shes up stairs.
renegadekav (14 дней назад)
The bible already outlined how to do marriage.
Shilpa Shanbhag (14 дней назад)
Good info
CIAOBELLA (14 дней назад)
had to RUN out of my marriage after seventeen years of a sexless marriage...horrible way to live

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