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No Sex Marriage – Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today? Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health". This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Robert Brown (1 день назад)
Ok Congress wy the f...whit the criminal that My law enforcement here in My city
Suspiriaxx (15 часов назад)
So many views!!!!
Hello All (6 часов назад)
BC test is down and girls are bored of thier husband's small dicks
Scott Gibson (19 часов назад)
Women need to feel love to make love, men need to make love to feel love.
Scott Gibson (5 часов назад)
+Maureen McGrathSorry I left that part out, I assumed that was a given since they were married. Take care
Maureen McGrath (3 часа назад)
No, women need to be physically attracted to a man to make love. I can't speak on behalf of men. +Scott Gibson
Flávio Peralta (1 день назад)
Muito bom,Abraços Palestrante Flávio Peralta
CH7 (5 дней назад)
I do not wish to throw in a religious argument (I respect everyone's beliefs) so feel free to interpret this statement. Satan is having a field day because standards are dying. He assaults single people with an avalanche of temptations and when they finally wed, he afflicts people with abstinence. It's truly sick. Before I wed, I am going to make my expectations very clear and every other man or woman should do the same.
G.E.T Lifestyle (7 дней назад)
why does she sound like she reading off a damn paper!
Maureen McGrath (6 дней назад)
Not sure why because I wasn't. +G.E.T. Lifestyle
John Dyer (7 дней назад)
Women could care less until they are the ones doing without. Interesting.
Geogria Peach (10 дней назад)
Wow. Thank you. Wonderful.
vijay s (7 дней назад)
Geogria Peach for what?
Zomber WonderClan (11 дней назад)
All i see is women asking and asking for stuff, and never thinking about give, or at least not to the degree in which they ask, it's like a tamagotchi, you gotta check up on it twice an hour, you don't in like 3 days? There, an affair, it's your fault, by the way.
I love this woman
TheMostGodless SinfulBastard (12 дней назад)
Marriage is such a an old, no longer needed, institution ---- it is a CONTRACT for god's sake!! The best way to go at it is to never ever never have just one woman to sleep with and never marry, that is according to nature. These people still want to fix this situation WITHIN the confines of the same old paradigm. If one person or both no longer feel desire for he other, all other nice feelings just will not do the trick. Daily life is passion's killer.
gtrmusic69 (12 дней назад)
She just keeps rocking back and forth the entire time.
Hippy(Bboomer) (12 дней назад)
Her opening line is totally cycnical.
TheUniversalAcid (12 дней назад)
What a load of nonsense
Joe Nelson (12 дней назад)
Wow... there seems to be a lot of man-bashing in the beginning of this video. Doesn't seem very helpful to men who are already self-conscious about their performance, intimacy, etc. Thanks. Watched the whole thing though, but it definitely colored my perception. Made it hard to concentrate on the points she was trying to make later in the video.
Maureen McGrath (11 дней назад)
I know, right. +Joe Nelson
R4P3 NETWORK (12 дней назад)
21:48 anyone hearing weird noises too?
Karlo Moharić (13 дней назад)
A lot of marriages end in divorce , simply because young people entering them have unrealistic expectations of one another. I personally blame all those romantic comedies and soap operas.
Hippy(Bboomer) (13 дней назад)
My parents were doing it when they were over 70.. Marriages fail because people are not committed, and they live by feelings instead of faith
avoime (13 дней назад)
Those statistics sound extremly sus
Umashankar Ram (13 дней назад)
U
Jay Bloom (13 дней назад)
The Red flag to watch for is: "You do not make me happy any more." Reason: Happiness comes from within our own inner self and our inner makeup. And that derives from our interaction Spiritually--often directed by our familial experiences.
Allan Stokes (13 дней назад)
Amazing. Never mentions the British once.
SIR WAFFLEBOB (14 дней назад)
Just don't get married. Ever!
D: (14 дней назад)
Women are delusional.
Derek Hippensteel (14 дней назад)
Painful decades slipping...
Derek Hippensteel (14 дней назад)
Show up for the divorce proceedings. Still waiting for someone I recognize through the court proceedings. Third judge...
leni lenape (15 дней назад)
Women create all these chores that need to be done. Women just have more material needs.
Parth Patel (15 дней назад)
Life changes when you get married you love your work more
Parth Patel (15 дней назад)
It should not be in brain it should be in stomach
freepointsgals (15 дней назад)
Why am I watching this? WHY?
Brian Ramsey (15 дней назад)
"50% of men would not have married their spouses if they had known that their marriage was going to be sexless." And yet some wonder why MGTOW is a growing movement.
Con Artist (16 дней назад)
Wish she'd stop moving and rocking sideways!!
Edmond Boulanger (17 дней назад)
it is a lack of thrust that leads to a lack of thrusting.
Furrowed Brow (17 дней назад)
Very cleverly worded presentation.
HK83IE (17 дней назад)
swayyy left right left right left right left right ...
MJ mj (17 дней назад)
Men are tired of women, and the society they now dominate. It was not meant to be this way; men cannot adjust to being co-equals or less. Men are taller, stronger, faster, less complicated thinkers, and more aggressive - naturally. This made men the natural leader of familial and tribal arrangements. The last 100 years of our 50,000 years together has turned this all on it's head - in the relative blink of an eye... And people do videos like this, wondering what happened. Add our estrogen laden food supply to this mix, and you got what we got here in the west...The west is dying, all the older traditional societies have to do is hang on a little bit longer. We'll be gone - of our own arrogance and ignorance about the balance of life, nature, men/women...the universe.
Maureen McGrath (16 дней назад)
Not sure what planet you're writing in from but I can tell you one thing; life here on Mars is quite different. +MJ mj
uday bhaskar (17 дней назад)
very informative
Maureen McGrath (17 дней назад)
Thank you +uday bhaskar Appreciate that.
ralph domond (17 дней назад)
Why does she sound like the “please leave a message at the tone” lady
Maureen McGrath (17 дней назад)
Day job...+ralph domond
Paul Fernando (17 дней назад)
Bollocks 😊
Maureen McGrath (17 дней назад)
Lady bollocks? +Paul Fernando
Drk RE (17 дней назад)
She was quite funny, but what I concluded from this is that marriage is a s**t sandwich for men and men staying in sexless marriages are total wusses...
XRAW TV (18 дней назад)
Marriage is for ...Women! Freedom is for Men !
Steven Homan (18 дней назад)
Damn. liar. Yeah to much sexb
peter58peter (19 дней назад)
Do not, even by accident, include in all of this capitalist ugliness.
vip1000001 (19 дней назад)
No money no funny
Tommie White (19 дней назад)
STOP MAKING BABIES
Dianna Yates (20 дней назад)
What about when the roles are switched? What about the women who initiate and it's the men who dont want you?
Maureen McGrath (16 дней назад)
I'm including it in my next You Tube talk planned for Q1 2019. +Dianna Yates
outlawruffryder (18 дней назад)
Maureen McGrath even more painful? How so? Is there a thing such as a pain measuring device ?
Dianna Yates (19 дней назад)
Maureen McGrath It is quite painful, wish there was a Ted Talk on the other side of this. Women tend to take it put on themselves. Been with this man for 9 years and married 6 and we are in a sexless marriage. We have a pretty awesome relationship otherwise. I think it just isnt discussed enough that it isnt always the women saying "no." Thank you for responding, by the way. Appreciate it :) Bless you
Maureen McGrath (19 дней назад)
That happens and it is even more painful +Dianna Yates
Wabbit Hunter (20 дней назад)
"Intimacy" is for women. Men don't give a fook. We just want to fook. We do not put effort into it - we just want to do it. Why "care" about it when we have to have "feelers" about everything?
Wabbit Hunter (20 дней назад)
As someone who has been married for 30 years - I masturbated furiously to this video - anyone else?
William Ted Brown (20 дней назад)
Approaching z90 a good memory jogger.
DeAndre Enrico (20 дней назад)
All the insecure men in here calling this a man bashing fest are hilarious.
gladys mueller (20 дней назад)
Too late
LassieRF (20 дней назад)
for whoever the problem is trouble in getting hard + keeping it up, just have your hubbies eat watermelon on a regular basis. or take L-arginine. works wonders. + have them do kegels every 2nd day. 3-5 seconds - 50 kegels ideally. but 20 in the first week or 2 works great too. you're welcome 8)
isacusful (20 дней назад)
how do you got time to that this conversation
Amrendra singh (21 день назад)
She has got a charm.
Maureen McGrath (20 дней назад)
Why, thank you very much. +Amrendra singh
Groundbate Smith (21 день назад)
Its all true, I live on my own,,, im glad theres no wife here, married for 18 years,,, glad she gone...
Mayank Soni (21 день назад)
Please translate it in hindi or hindi subtitles
Maureen McGrath (21 день назад)
OK, will try.
cataderian (21 день назад)
I like the train analogy. Men reach that destination 98% of the time, women far,far less. Some never. Whats the point of a long train ride if you almost never get to the destination?
Don try-ya (21 день назад)
58 times a year!!!!!! No, at least 5 times a week , 260 a year!! She with a wrong man or husband
Ken MacMillan (21 день назад)
Colds really are harder on men.
Ken MacMillan (21 день назад)
It's scientifically proven, the cold virus attacks men harder.
Maureen McGrath (21 день назад)
Of course they are! +Ken MacMillan
tony harmon (22 дня назад)
get a dog....
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videogalore (22 дня назад)
Really good talk once I forced myself past the unnecessary sexism at the beginning. Stereotypes are there for a reason because they work more often than not, but I can't help but think that if the presenter was a man and produced the same slurs against women then this would have had a very different reception!
knowledgetracker (22 дня назад)
The voice-over in sections is annoying.
Nancy Lee (22 дня назад)
I'm surprised she didn''t mention morals ,concerning cheating. It's not worth it, folks, if you believe what the Bible says...So a sexless marriage becomes very difficult and heartbreaking!
outlawruffryder (18 дней назад)
Nancy Lee what dies the bible say about submitance?
Shannon Patitucci (22 дня назад)
Amen sister !
T Onion (22 дня назад)
Is this a robot?
Maureen McGrath (21 день назад)
That's because they were off! I've just had an aha moment! They wanted me to edit this and probably cut out the audio. I declined. Thanks for your kind words! +T Onion
T Onion (22 дня назад)
Maureen McGrath Lol! The videos audio seems kinda off. I really enjoyed your speech. So much truth, you are an amazing person!
Maureen McGrath (22 дня назад)
No, I'm no. +T Onion
Jason Wood (22 дня назад)
wow that was an awesome presentation
Maureen McGrath (22 дня назад)
Thank you +Jason Wood
James KNAPP (23 дня назад)
The most fulfilled marriages are swingers!
joukcrew03 (23 дня назад)
I was too distracted by that expensive necklace around her neck.
joukcrew03 (22 дня назад)
Maureen McGrath ..lol seemed too sparkly to not be expensive. The talk was very very informative.
Maureen McGrath (22 дня назад)
LOL, it was $50 bucks. +joucrew03
Jean Keats (23 дня назад)
BAL oney! I don't want to fantasize about anyone but my own husband and we've been together almost 20 years. He still gives me that feeling she's talking about. Now, does he feel the same? Don't know.
Daniel Johnson (23 дня назад)
Today’s lifestyle
Enyonam Att-eshun (24 дня назад)
Great piece!
Vincent Gabriel Antonini (24 дня назад)
Ok speech, bad audio edit...
Dan Leach (24 дня назад)
Maureen, that was great.
Maureen McGrath (24 дня назад)
Thank you very much! +Dan Leach
Margaret Hale (24 дня назад)
Cheating gene? Wha? Just curious: what protein, enzyme, hormone does the "cheating gene" code for and what part of the brain is stimulated by it? Does the status of married/not married activate the gene? What about a divorce? Will a divorce paper shut off the "cheating" gene?
Random Stranger (25 дней назад)
me
No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! (25 дней назад)
The stage is on boat?
No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! (25 дней назад)
Why marry anyway?
No One Is Listening Until I Fart !!! (25 дней назад)
I got nausea after watching her for a couple of minutes...
m b (25 дней назад)
If only women lusted after their husbands as much as they lust after food
robert hingston (25 дней назад)
There is a way around this.. stay single
Crypto Sensei (25 дней назад)
Get outta here...no wonder the divorce rate is so high
mareeyo1 (25 дней назад)
Totally did not expect this type of talk. Too many attempts at being funny and not staying on track. Had to stop watching halfway through.
wheatonna (25 дней назад)
"scourging through your blood vessels" ? I think she means "coursing".
Maureen McGrath (24 дня назад)
I did, you're right. +wheatonna
Travis Hamblin (25 дней назад)
That was my ex wife. EX.
Forest Groomer (26 дней назад)
One word. Feminism. That's the problem. Until women figure out feminism is toxic for both sexes you will keep trying to figure out why women are on average unhappy.
dev0n james (26 дней назад)
It's always a completion to see who's better or worse. we get it you always win.
Dave Wygonowski (26 дней назад)
It's all about earthly pleasures...
Suren Knewton (26 дней назад)
Very importand pserspective
50young603 (26 дней назад)
KMA
CRYSTAL QI (27 дней назад)
Why I’m watching this? I don’t even have a bf . But it’s good to know about marriage couple
Adrian Tomlin (27 дней назад)
I agree with some in this commentary. Why is it always the man at fault. Last time I checked it's a 50 50 situation. There's 2 involved here!!!
Maureen McGrath (27 дней назад)
It's not the man's fault. In fact, in this I explain women's culpability. +Adrian Tomlin
dave roche (27 дней назад)
I stay single and take care of my self and my money!!!!
Samuel Geiger (27 дней назад)
"We're exasted!" That's what you get for wanting it all bitches! You can't have your cake and eat it too cunts. Women don't care about men. They only care about what men can do for them and how men can make them feel. F*co women. MGTOW!
ED Shawn (27 дней назад)
Blah blah blah...life isn't perfect..just be happy if you have food and health. Don't expect too much.
borg386 (27 дней назад)
If a man can’t get it up then the woman needs to arouse him better. It doesn’t happen automatically without foreplay.
strengthtrain91 (27 дней назад)
The best option is to live a married life based on the way it was designed to work. Check out marriagetoday with Jimmy and Karen Evans.
Lars Paulsen (28 дней назад)
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say, she's probably not married and is currently raising a bunch of cats, but I could be wrong.
Maureen McGrath (28 дней назад)
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you are a troll living in your mother's basement and haven't seen the light of day for a while now. +Lars Paulsen I doubt I'm wrong.
Gaabinubat Rafinulifilit (28 дней назад)
I came here for the masturbation.

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